Tobey Maguire, Former Spider-Man, Officiates His Ex-Wife Jennifer Meyer's Wedding to Music Director Geoffrey Ogunlesi in Hawaii

In Hollywood, the ex-husband doesn't sit in the back row at the wedding. He runs the ceremony. Actor Tobey Maguire, who was Spider-Man two decades ago, on Saturday, 10 October, officiated the wedding of his ex-wife, jewellery designer Jennifer Meyer, to music director Geoffrey Ogunlesi. The wedding took place at the Four Seasons hotel on the Hawaiian island of Lanai.

The timeline is almost better than the scene itself. Maguire and Meyer met in 2003, married in 2007 and have two children, Ruby and Otis. They announced their separation around ten years ago, but according to court documents they were only declared legally single on 21 September this year. So less than three weeks passed between the official end of one marriage and the start of the next - and the man who signed off on the ending also opened the beginning.

Meyer has spoken of Maguire for years as one of her best friends, and she clearly didn't mean it just as a polite line for the press. She has been with Ogunlesi since 2023, they announced their engagement in 2024, and in June 2026 they had a daughter - their first child together.

The guest list looked like a red carpet moved to the beach: Leonardo DiCaprio with Vittoria Ceretti, Courteney Cox, Rachel Zoe, Kate Hudson with Danny Fujikawa, and Jeff Bezos with Lauren Sánchez Bezos. The media called the wedding surreal. Maybe it is - or maybe it just shows that a divorce doesn't have to end with the friends being divided up and children spending holidays in two houses that don't speak to each other.

In the Balkans, an ex-husband at a wedding is café gossip for three years - if he even makes it through the door. Here, he says the words over the newlyweds, in front of the cameras and in front of the children he has with the bride. Is this maturity we should be learning from, or a luxury only people with nothing to fight over can afford?