Some weddings are remembered for the glamour, others for the details that tell a story older than the newlyweds themselves. The wedding of Cleo von Adelsheim, an actress and baroness, to Prince Franz Albrecht zu Oettingen-Spielberg, belongs to the second group. Held in Bavaria, it gathered a slice of German and European nobility, and at the centre of attention was a tiara more than a century old.

That very Oettingen family diadem is the heart of the story. Adorned with a row of large geometric rosettes of diamonds and dated to the late 19th and early 20th century, it traditionally passes from princess to princess in this family. To place on your head jewellery worn by generations before you isn't a fashion decision - it's an act of belonging, a way for the bride to become a link in a chain that has lasted for centuries.

The gown didn't lag behind either. Italian designer Luisa Beccaria crafted a romantic dress of embroidered organza, and Cleo discovered the brand during a visit to Milan with her friend Beatrice Borromeo - who was later also a guest at the wedding. For the evening celebration she had a second dress, hand-embroidered, and her Jimmy Choo shoes carried the couple's initials engraved on the inside. A tiny detail no one sees, but which the newlyweds know.

Weddings like these are easy to dismiss as a plaything of the rich, and in part that's exactly what they are. But behind the splendour there's something we in our region understand well too - the weight of tradition, the importance of family jewellery being passed down, the feeling that a wedding isn't just entertainment for one day but a bond between past and future. The only difference is that for some the tiara is diamond, while for others grandmother's wedding ring is all the treasure there is - but the meaning is the same.